A man for me has got to be a lot of things, but there's somethings that has to match from the start.
Charming - a trait I can't explain how to get perfect. It could be attitude, laughter, a look, winking, a way of being, giving attention in a certain way.
Funny! If you don't laugh at my jokes now, you won't in two weeks either, and the other way around.
Matching kiss - this is very important. A non match at this one, could potentially be crucial. Yes, "we can work on it", but that's not what you want to start of with! There will be lots of things that needs a "work on", we don't want to start there.
Attention seeking - 'cause I am and I can't have you around competition for mine. I want you to fill my needs, not have the same. It's like having the same favorite chocolate - it's not all for me.
And I'm not sure how important physically attractive is. Of course it matters (it's bull shit that it's the inner that counts, 'cause you'll never get to show if your physics doesn't pass), but I don't know how much it matters. At least not to start with... I'm not saying I'd go for everything, but you don't need to look like Johnny Depp (but it helps).
